Absence of words or silence

It has been a while since I last posted.

But that doesn’t mean that I have not been inspired or active.

For being absent does not mean one is lost.

Hence being lost for word to be a better description of ones state of mind. Nevertheless this is not to be justified for not talking or responding to the universe that surrounds us.

For being lost for words does not put and end to the situation, does not shut us off from any undesired circumstance. It simply means that we at that moment have no argumentable words that contribute in a positive way, best is to focus on other aspects of which we can have a positive intput in… But doesn’t shut us or anyone off.

Silence is the opposite. And it is always in a desperate unconscious way of trying to control that what we can not control with our knowledge, experience and expertise. It creates a gap in our universe that is hard to close once opened

One that has grown so familiar with disappointment or sorrow has most likely build a defense mechanism that portraits itself in various different forms. None of them beneficial whatsoever but even so too often they are used without even being asked for.

Master your innerself and learn how to handle yourself in every situation.

Learn the different ways of how your own defensive walls have been built so that you can be lost for words but not in silence.



Silence: the absence of sound, noise, abstractions.

In a society where we are constantly bombarded with materialistic messages, creating a culture of a meaningless loud world where we need to shout in order to be heard and noticed, the best option is to create a silent world around us.

Silence calms our spirit, allows us to keep a clear mind and proceed our own walk of life.

A communication network that has no electrical noise filter is only half as efficient as a clean one.
A mind that is abstracted by surrounding noise will no longer be able to focus on its own thoughts.

However silence kills.

Often mistaken for the best method of self preserverance, silence can destroy that what one is fighting for.

A silent man, that keeps is mind to his own is a prudent person.
A silent man, that keeps his opinion unspoken becomes a puppet and the world his puppeteer.

Unspoken words will never be words.

To speak in silence is the same, if not worse that to speak meaningless words.
Neither are correct and neither have been placed where they should have been.

Use silence to clear the mind, block the noise to stay focused.

But never use silence for words. Even if unsure on what to say, speak your mind for a unspoken thought is far worse than a thought that is not verbalized in the perfect way.

There is no wrong or right in the way we feel. It is either understood and accepted by others or not. But only when spoken.

Silentium: the two edged sword

Pendulum of Life

The greedy salesman, desperately trying to regain losses, tries hard to regain control.
Thinking of ways to get back up he chooses the easy way, the one without honour, the desperate manipulative action.
Grabbing hold of the pendulum, trying to cheat his way into prosperity, stealing from honest and trustful people . But as the weight increases and whilst he is grabbing onto that pendulum, trying to force a balance on the scale that is unnatural he does not see the rick, the slingshot  momentum that is being created.
The pressure became too much, that strong hold, that action trying to regain balance and control has swung into unthinkable depths, as the pendulum gave way and swung to its deepest opposite direction.

In life we sometimes try hard to regain control, balance. We focus on making things work and by doing so all our attention goes just into small details. Details that we think are responsible for regaining that balance and keeping it.

Neglecting other important matters of life we keep going, because once there were these small changes that we needed to do, small adaptations to our daily routine that were needed there and then in order to get back on track.

However balance is about letting the pendulum go. Releasing the pendulum and having faith. To see and to hear, to feel and to express is all there is needed to be in balance.
Sometimes it might swing left and sometimes it might swing right, that is the nature of life. Life´s balance is about living everyday, felling and sensing, expressing and absorbing…

Don´t cling onto the pendulum, grabbing it and trying to force it into balance. When one takes such actions he might risk an uneven pressure build, creating a momentum that once it becomes so strong that it breaks the balance, it is so strong that it will take twice the effort to dissipate come to a standstill.

Acknowledge and embrace 

Growing older teaches a thing or two.

Growing up is a learning curve that hopefully will be guided by love and care by our role models, by our loved ones.
By our childish mistakes we learn and adapt.

By growing older gives us an opportunity to embrace the wonders of life, nature and an unseen force that guides us through this ocean of emotions, troubles and joys.

Sometimes we will get a feeling of horror, a mistrusting feeling of events, of situations and circumstances in live that if we ignore a wave of sorrow will be brought upon us. A true tsunami of worries.

But there are also circumstances we are drawn to that is taken for granted or not grabbed at that time and moment will be later seen with grate regret.
Those moments, when the universe aligns we have no control over. It is out of our reach and we cannot say when it needs to happen. What we do have in these moments of wonderful chemistry is the ability to grab hold of what the universe puts in our path.

Guided by our gut feeling, our instinct, we need to take action. That sixth sense that we are blessed to have will guide us through life, both for good and bad.

The universe has aligned this day a year ago. And a new path has been shown.

Embracing that moment one can only acknowledge and be grateful  

life´s biggest lesson

life biggest and most important lesson must be

“Learn To Let Go”

Just like a young lion cup needs to let go and hunt for himself. Like the young bird lets go and jumps into his first flight….

We need to learn how to let go.

As kids exploring the world we can only truly learn when we let go and when our parents let us go.

So as parents this is the most important teaching and lesson to our next generation.
It is so big that throughout our lives we are constantly challenged with it.
Either it be in a dispute on work or private, letting go of negative feelings and thoughts is the only way to move forward.

A lion hunting cant hang on to anger or resentment when his pray gets away. He lets go and moves onto the next pray.

Letting go of the past so the future can be great. Failing to do this will keep us in the same old fearfully daily life routine that we try to get away from.

Letting go does not mean that we go into the world alone and cut relations with loved or close ones. It means we let go of bad and negative feeling and thoughts.

As we get older life lessons start to have meaning.
No longer do we simply roam around clueless. We now reflect and adjust. Learn from errors and mistakes and move on into a better version of ourself.

Being greatfull for all life events, all lessons I cannot leave behind the ones that step into my world and help me become a better person.

Learn to let go.
Learn to let go of the past and fears from the past so the future is in the next step. A better future full of colour.

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Embrace your life

Trapped in daily life we fail sometimes to look around.
surrounded by beauty taken for granted sometimes, untill we see strangers stepping on our land.
amazed by the same beauty we see every day.

only difference is they don’t take it for granted.

just because it is daily routine it doesn’t mean it looses it’s beauty and wonderfulness.
the same that attracted us in the beginning is still there.
it is now part of us and that makes it even more intense.

look around and embrace those that are part of you. recognizing their value embrace it and you will find something new everyday.

life is a journey.
don’t loose sight of the wonderfulness around you, even it it seems insignificant and small, trying to look for someone else’s views and idea.

build your own castle

Walk your own path

A path, a road to something beyond your imagination.
is it worth getting into?
even though you can’t see the road ahead, even though it might seem hard, there is only one way…
keep going and find paradise..

afraid to step forward and fall we might ask others for their opinion, for their view.
but that is just what it is.. their view.

don’t be afraid to slip, even if someone has tripped on this path.
walk your own path to success.
enlighten your world with your own steps and pursue to success.

don’t build your castle on someone else’s image.

op zoek naar….

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Op zoek naar antwoorden
probeer niet teveel te denken
om zo mijn illusies niet te vermoorden
wat kan het dan toch ook schelen
als je voor niets leeft, geen dromen
soms is het teveel. het zal wel goed komen
probeer mezelf op te been te houden
maar kijk om me heen, niemand om te vertrouwen

Op zoek naar een antwoord, een licht aan het eind
ik richt me tot God, kijk naar boven en vraag
wanneer komt het goed, wanneer verdwijnt
deze wolk om me heen, wil alleen maar rust
om me heen. ben ervan best bewust
dat ik degene ben die daar voor moet zorgen
een arm om me heen, troost.
en mijn geesten ver opgeborgen
is dat een deal? is dat beloofd

Op zoek naar een antwoord vergeten we te vragen
soms doen we iets stoms en kunnen we alleen klagen
op zoek naar het paradijs, laten we achter
ons eigen geluk. we zijn ons eigen leven aan het verkrachten
meer en meer we willen meer. we willen alles
op zoek naar de top vergeten we weleens de bases
een antwoord op iets dat niet uit te leggen valt
geef meer waarde. leef meer. pas op je verknalt
je eigen antwoord op zoek naar de waarheid
geef alles van je. ben je daarvoor bereid?

Op zoek naar een antwoord je leven aan het instorten
blijf niet te lang stilstaan, wil niet wegrotten
soms denken we teveel, je moet doorgaan
kijk om je heen maar blijf niet te lang stilstaan
observeer anderen maar doe ze niet na
je bent uniek. Leef niet in een anders dogma.

Op zoek naar een antwoord vergeet niet te leven
Op zoek naar een antwoord vergeet niet het heden



Clear blue waters

A blue lake with clear waters, enchanting, charming and welcoming.
As I look into it I drown, I surrender to what is to become.
A breeze, a feeling… something draws my attention.
I embrace it and let myself be carried away in that warm and familiar stream, it takes hold of me.

Once I have dreamt about this. Many times thought I had seen it. But not untill I fell into this lake could I ever imagined the wonderfulness of it.

Now I no longer despair, no longer cry in fear. Now I am one with that true feeling, now I am one…

A warm stream that surrounds me, gives me hope, comfort and well being. Takes my breath, fulfills my core with life…

A lake.
A blue lake with still waters that hypnotizes me whenever I look into it.
There where I jump into, unafraid of drowning…

Today, tomorrow… today, yesterday…

Today we spend time and energy thinking and planning for tomorrow
Tomorrow we will think back in analysis of our actions today.

Tomorrow is what we do today. Tomorrow today will be yesterday.
We are what we do now, a reflection of our actions now.

There is no time more important than now. What will be depends on what is now.
There is no bigger importance in yesterday than a mere remembrance that we can learn from. Yet again today is when we are able to change, if changes are needed.

This doesn’t justify reckless behaviour under the flag of living fast, enjoying life with deathly behaviour nor does it mean that we have to live with no goals and guidance.
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Just dont spend too much time on what will be. Dont let negative past experiences define what you are today.
It doesnt matter how old or young you are. What sex you are. How complicated your life seems to be (complicated is when we make an issue of an issue).
It really doesnt matter…

Know what you want. Define that what you want to achieve and work towards that.
Dont be fooled by a dog day in a life time that is still to be lived.
Dont dwell on the past. Use it for tomorrow.
Dont push things and persons away because of fear for what might or might not come.

Embrace today and live today.

There is no tomorrow if today is not lived.
Tomorrow there will be no past if today has not been lived

Time is subjective to what we make of it…

Live now, dream for tomorrow but take those steps now…