Some times we tend to hold back on feelings, emotions… We stop and consider what we need to say and do in order to possibly say or do the correct thing.
Yet we fail to realize how by doing so we are failing to be true and say what needs to be said.
This been said, doesn’t mean we need to turn into egocentric evil wrong doers that hurt everything and everyone around us.
I am talking about holding back on positive constructive emotions that will actually help us become better human beings.
Negative and harmful thoughts we should consider very well before putting them out there. Quite often those hard words are nothing but a reaction of fear, not what we really want to say, a mere reality of our defence mechanism that takes over and controls the situation.
Don’t hold back on saying and being a better husband, wife, lover, father, mother, friend, brother, sister. Don’t hold back on being a better human.
Think like this…..
Tomorrow might never come. Write your thoughts on what if you die tonight and use those note to improve.
When Biggie Smalls wrote suicidal thoughts it wasn’t a suicidal note. It was a moment of realising how bad he had been and what he needed to improve.
You can only fix that what you can recognize for yourself. Those around you might tell you what they feel is wrong but not until you see it for yourself will you be able to change.
What if I die tonight? What will I leave behind, what have I not done or said
Live today, don’t hold back